ABUSE

What does abuse means? What is it all about?

There are a few types of abuses; physically , emotionally, mentally, verbal..

The most common ones are verbal, emotional and mentally abuses that are being taken for granted. Some to the extend that the victims themselves are unaware of until it is too late to change or avoid the situation. Whilst the dominant subject has incorporated this into his daily ritual. Usually during the initial stage of these abuses the dominant subject will feel guilty that he/she is capable of causing such hurt to the other person. As time pass by, as many times as the victim forgives and forgets, these abuse grew stronger till there is no turning back. Even more so that it inflict fear in the victim. The victim will be so alert in his/her behavior when around the dominant subject. He/she will be careful not to upset the dominant subject.

Some victims would try ways to please the dominant subject hoping he/she can see they are worth their love. But do you think its worth the try? How long do you think the dominant subject is smart enough to see that ? After all the years of abusing and some even enjoy tormenting the victims, do you think the dominant subject is willing to give it up? The more the victim tries, the more the dominant subject sees the victim as pathetic human being , a waste of the population that need to be taken care of, of course in his own ways..

Many around are being verbally and emotionally abused. When this happen, the victims usually suffer in silent and are confused. They dont know if they should leave or try to change the dominant subjects. Of course alot chose the later and suffered even longer until there was no way out. The victims has never showed anger or retaliate back for so long that if they were to try, the dominant subject will abuse more and more and in ways that would inflict fear. Once the victim shows fear, the dominant subject will enjoy using the same method to feel the power of control over the victim

Do you know if you have been abused?  Do you dare to admit?