ABUSE

What does abuse means? What is it all about?

There are a few types of abuses; physically , emotionally, mentally, verbal..

The most common ones are verbal, emotional and mentally abuses that are being taken for granted. Some to the extend that the victims themselves are unaware of until it is too late to change or avoid the situation. Whilst the dominant subject has incorporated this into his daily ritual. Usually during the initial stage of these abuses the dominant subject will feel guilty that he/she is capable of causing such hurt to the other person. As time pass by, as many times as the victim forgives and forgets, these abuse grew stronger till there is no turning back. Even more so that it inflict fear in the victim. The victim will be so alert in his/her behavior when around the dominant subject. He/she will be careful not to upset the dominant subject.

Some victims would try ways to please the dominant subject hoping he/she can see they are worth their love. But do you think its worth the try? How long do you think the dominant subject is smart enough to see that ? After all the years of abusing and some even enjoy tormenting the victims, do you think the dominant subject is willing to give it up? The more the victim tries, the more the dominant subject sees the victim as pathetic human being , a waste of the population that need to be taken care of, of course in his own ways..

Many around are being verbally and emotionally abused. When this happen, the victims usually suffer in silent and are confused. They dont know if they should leave or try to change the dominant subjects. Of course alot chose the later and suffered even longer until there was no way out. The victims has never showed anger or retaliate back for so long that if they were to try, the dominant subject will abuse more and more and in ways that would inflict fear. Once the victim shows fear, the dominant subject will enjoy using the same method to feel the power of control over the victim

Do you know if you have been abused?  Do you dare to admit?

ALVIN INTERIOR DECO

Wow ! 2nd Branch... This 30+ year old friend of mine, Alvin, has finally open the 2nd branch of his Alvin Interior Deco at One Jaya, Jalan Song, Kuching, Sarawak. This branch will concentrate on latest wallpapers for houses. Alvin Interior Deco started his business with providing curtains and interior decorating.

Alvin Interior Deco new signage at One Jaya, Jalan Song, Kuching, Sarawak

The two Lions greeting Datuk Alfred Yap and Alvin (the young chap in grey)

Flanked by reporters and VIP, Datuk Alfred Yap and invited guests, he managed to do a smooth ceremony . Children enjoyed 2 shows of Lion Dance which is a traditional chinese culture in Malaysia. Datuk Alfred Yap, with his opening speech, talked about the different living standards in Kuching in the past and now. Children now over spent to keep up to the trend whereby children in the past was taught to study hard, get good grades, saves money for rainy days and to reach the top. Who are we to blame?

Datuk Alfred Yap during his speech

The Lion doing its stuff

First customer, Mr. & Mrs. Thien

(any purchases made during this day will get 20% discount and a mystery gift)

Alvin Interior Deco donates RM1000 to a Chinese School in Kuching Sarawak

(The Principal of the school receiving the mock cheque)

Hoohooo.............. FOOD! These are for VIPs

I managed to catch a bit of Lion Dance but i have problem downloading the video...

TRUE WOMAN

Every women is conscious of their beauty and body. Which is why any weight loss product is going to sell like hot cake! Place the picture of a sexy woman in hot pants showing sexing legs , tight clothes etc and you will get the sales in no time

Women are always open minded to try out the anti aging , slimming and beauty care products, depending on individual needs. Some pay alot to join gym that they only go once a month. Some pay alot to try out various supplements to keep them beautiful from inside out. Some would spend alot to slim down just so that they are able to squeeze into a Size S dress. Some very slim girls will spend on slimming products too.

A wise guy once told me that its profitable to sell female related products. Now, did any of you gals out there ever thought of taking care "down south" ? Some of the complaints I gathered were mostly over wetness during sex, discharge, loose after child birth or due to age, unable to reach orgasm...

Any concern or worries at that area? .. What if I tell you there's something that can help you with all these yet help you achieve super orgasm same time? Not only will you achieve super orgasm but Your Partner too... This product is made of every natural things you can find in the jungle. . Leaves , herbs etc.. All natural without addictive. This has been popular since 1900... They even produce products suitable for Men. For vitality, enlargement, health benefits, .. how about staying longer???  Some suppliers are using this opportunity to sell at a very high price especially to Japanese women. Actually its not an expensive product. Due to the demand , the suppliers are taking every opportunity to "Chop"

If anyone of you wants to know what products I am talking about here, please contact me via email.. :)

FRIEND OR FIEND??

I hate it when someone wants to be friends , not because they are friendly, not because they are nice or whatever BUT its because they have ulterior motives.  

I am so mad I feel like shouting #@%$ (please mind my language but I am so pissed!) . This woman that I met at my Customer's office was a pain from day 1 i know her till ....... (dont know when it's going to end). Every month when I go there to collect payment, she will give plenty of excuses such as her Boss is not in town, the cheque was wrongly issued, I was late in submitting my invoice... etc. We closed every last day of the month and I submit my invoice latest 2nd day of the following month. Is that late?? How late is it that I cannot collect payment? 

You know, every follow up calls I made to her will always end up with AMWAY! Honestly, I really dont know how AMWAY train their distributors. Are they so uneducated that they cant tell from right to wrong anymore? I have joined AMWAY before back many years ago.. That reason is unacceptable because I can always use somebody else's name! I finally joined under her , hoping she will give up bugging me. The late payment is not an issue but I really cannot stand her calls and nagging on I should buy this or that, my house needs this or that, my dogs need this or that, my kids needs all those vitamins, I should use AMWAY water filter because its the BEST in the world! The most stupid thing she suggested was that I should use AMWAY detergent and stain removers for my laundry business. Can you imagine my cost??? . One thing I want to learn from AMWAY is how the heck they are able to train distributors to be so committed and crazy over sales?? What is the technique they use? Maybe I can duplicate it on my own group of agents... Before any of my readers say not every distributors are like this woman., please, she is not the first AMWAY distributor that is getting on my nerves..

After I join, she pass me the payment. The cheque was dated 3rd of the month, I got it end of the month when I fill in the membership forms and paid for it.

She found a newly established vendor. Encourage her employers to switch from my company to the new one. Giving lame excuses eg her employer wants to give them a try and that they will use back our service in the near future. Hey, I couldnt be bothered.. To me, its MERDEKA (FREEDOM!) from her. I dont need to hear her telling me I need to buy this and that... then I can see my cheque.. I dont need to hear her voice anymore. Isn't it cool? Since I don't make any profit from their business at all considering the money I need to spend, the pestering I get from her. The STRESS I have to endure. I really dont like the way she tried talking me into buying stuffs that I dont need. The way she do it is like threatening my business indirectly.. At first, I obliged her. In the end I felt I would be more at ease without their business support.

Today, she called again. She got the chick to say "How are you? Have you receive the AMAGRAM (monthly magazine from AMWAY)? Thought I call to tell you they are having trade in promo now and I think you should consider. Plus we have alot of other offers. It does not mean we cannot be friends even if we are using the new vendor. We are still friends. Don't worry, we will surely switch back to your service in the near future. We are just testing their quality and service" . Hearing her comments, I quickly told her that they should continue supporting the new vendor. Am sure the quality and service are in top form. Why does she need to find fault?

I really pity the new vendor. Just open for business and she met this woman! Of all the person in the World. Giving fake promises and lots of pestering. I can feel for her.

I am so happy my AMWAY membership is expiring next month and I am definitely NOT renewing it. Hopefully by then, I wouldnt be hearing from her ever again!!!!!!

NEW BORNS

NEW ADDITIONS TO THE FAMILY

OH ..... I LOVE SHOES!! :)

My new buys...............

I LOST WEIGHT

I finally LOST the KG i gained in 2008!! ... am so happy...

2 months ago, my 'Boss' from Kuala Lumpur, came for a visit. He proposed that I should consider wearing slacks to work. His reason (nicely phrase) was I have fair skin and may encounter problem when dealing with female customers. So, wearing slacks when dealing with females may prevent them from feeling insecure of themselves. .. I dont know how true this is...

Anyway, because of the 6 KG i gained, I have since started to wear dresses with high heels. You can see some of my heels in "my collection" archive. (By the way, I bought few new shoes today.. oohh... nice) . So, I challenged him, told him if he could help me to regain back my original weight , I may consider to wear slacks. I dont like to wear pants, my waist is too small and my bottom too big.. (I leave it to your imaginations how it turn out when i wear pants)..

He passed me a product with cactus Hoodia as one of their main ingredients.  I didnt feel hungry all the time. It was so convenient. Just shake it, drink it first thing in the morning, that's it. everyday for the past 2 and a half months and I LOST 6 KG!! Wow! unbelievable.. I thought there is no more hope for me to lose weight anymore. I spent so much time looking for products to slim down. Spent so much money trying out slimming products yet i gained more weight.

I have lost my stubborn fats, my blood glucose has even gone down from 6.2 to 5.2... wow!

What can I say?? I am so happy... I am planning to lose some more... wish me luck!