CAKES DECO

    Kids' Choice

                                                             For Adults.....

   
Cakes  are made for all occasions and for the young to olds.... It may come in all sorts of shapes and flavours. Love shapes for Valentines Day specially dedicated for lovers..

Children would prefer decorations of cartoons characters on their cakes ... boys might prefer spiderman, batman, or..... girls may prefer some disney princesses characters or hello kitty..

How would you like yours to be? Chocolate or Cheese maybe.... Strawberry? yummmm......

DILEMMA

I am in a dilemma .. on changes in personality

Is one easily influenced by the group of friends one has?

Is it true that you can prejudge a person from their friends or groups ?

Is it possible for a powerful influential person become a follower instead, even if it has a negative impact ?

Is it not an achievement for one to reach a status quo ?

 yet subconsciously influenced by friends to go backwards , becoming ignorance of their actions be it good or bad ?

Is it possible for a person with a mature and good judge of character acting like naive kids who has just reached puberty?

Could it be fear of aging , or fear of losing out to their friends or is it for popularity?

Desire

We had a girls' gathering at my new shop recently. Most of them met for the first time. Introductions was done as casual as possible to avoid awkward feelings amongst themselves. I noticed everyone kept to themselves initially, it was quite difficult to persuade them to give their opinions on the project. However, I am glad the meeting ended beautifully because it has achieved its goal.

From my observation of each participants that I realize one can only be successful in whatever he/she sets his/her mind to, comes more from the desire within themselves. They must want it badly enough and understand that they have to stay focus, works towards their goals, sacrifices of their time, not to give up half way........ they must understand hurdles cannot be avoided. Hurdles are everywhere, they appear whenever no one is expecting, they seems to overstay each of their visits...

Giving up before giving your best will haunt you for life. Wasting time regretting your actions will haunt you for life. Regretting not having a positive mind and over coming the hurdles will haunt you for life. Waiting for the right time to continue where you left off and never ever find the right time will haunt you for life. Allowing opinions and negative feedbacks to affect your concentrations will lead to negative results thus it will haunt you for life.

The same goes for "Letting your love slip by for the fear of failure in relationships will haunt you for life" 

A Meaningful Story

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.

The boy was the gem to this loving couple..

One morning the husband saw a bottle of medicine on the table. Being late for
office he could only asked
his wife to keep it in the cupboard.

His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.



The boy saw the bottle, fascinated by its colour and drank it all.

Such huge dosages turned fatal to the child. He collapsed. The mother

hurried him to the hospital. He died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her
husband.


When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead

child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.





QUESTIONS :



1. What were the five words ?

2. What is the implication of this story?



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ANSWER :



The husband just said "I am with you Darling".

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.

The child is dead. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.

Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would

not have happened.



No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she

needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.

That is what he gave her.



If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be
much fewer problems in the
world.



"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."

Take off all your envies, jealousies, selfishness, and fears.

And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

YOUNGER GENERATION

I had recently interviewed afew and came across youngsters who are living a very comfy lifestyle compared to the past generations. They started having their own cars when they reached teen age, started dating at very young age, no curfews for them, able to buy or treat friends for drinks maybe a way to show their generosity or maturity or independancy or.... ?? They spent alot, because they were not taught the value of money. They possessed expensive mobile phones even though they are unemployed. Money seems to "rain" upon them very easily. Some of these kids dont even come from well off families. Where do they find the money to enjoy such carefree lifestyle? Late nights, datings , treating friends for meals & drinks, own transports.... What will become of our next generation? They dont even know some have to work a whole month for RM500 of pay. This amount of money can only last these over pampered kids for two weeks or the most three. They are mostly in the 20s category.

These kids are very good in maths. Tell them to work a month for RM500, after much consideration, they think its not worth their time. They dont care or dont want to work their way up the corporate ladder. They just want to jump out from a plane and land on top the corporate ladder!!.. How long do you think they can survive on the Directors' seat or CEO position? Ok, .. Manager's position... Do you think they know what makes a good leader? Do you think they know what is "managing a profitable business"...? Or better still, Do you think they know how to earn money? They are not getting enough exposure to lead a team or manage a company. Honestly, I think they dont know how to take care of themselves.

Alot of youngsters nowadays chose to be in the sales industry. Be it any sales. Whatever the company is selling as long as they are a SALESMAN!!! Why?? Simply for the freedom. They dont have to be stucked in an office the whole day. They can be with anyone they like, be it friends or enemies or lovers... or they can even go home for a good nap. They never taught of producing results. They always have an excuse. Excuses eg. dont know what the customer wants, dont know how to sell, dont know who to sell to, dont know how to handle objections... blah blah blah... How do they know how to overcome all these if they never do sales even though they are SALESMEN!!

Let me clear your doubts. I finally understood some of them. They just want to get paid. Ask them to fill up marketing reports and plan a week ahead, and you know what happen? They RESIGN!! They cant be tied down by it. They are too commited to their relaxed lifestyle. Payday gives them money for enjoyment. They dont want to prove themselves. They dont even know their own strength. They dont know themselves. They dont think about 10 years ahead, what will become of them. Would they have a family of their own? How much would his income be?

A saying goes like this : "If you dont want to be in the same situation five years from now, then first thing to do is change yourself " "You must first change yourself before you can change your situation" . Change your mindset. Set a goal for yourself. How could you change your situation if you dont change yourself?

A speaker once told us a story of her son. Her son is not serious in his studies. He does not care if his results are the best, just so long as he passed. One day, she realised that his results will not be able to get him into any Uni. Not even the local Uni. She thought carefully on how she should handle this situation. One fine day, her son was at home napping in the living room. She brought him the newspaper and woke him up. She talked to him about his results, alerting him of the consequences. Her son simply said "Its still a long way before i finished my studies. Why Worry, Mom?" She had anticipated his reply and prepared her respond for it. She said "Son, i want you to turn the newspaper to the Classified Ads. What positions in there do you see suits your results?" ... He browsed through the managerial post, then the executive post, the supervisory post, ... he didnt looked lower than the management levels.. His mom helped him to find one post which is so "for him"? Its a waiter post in a Hotel. She said "Son, see! I found you a job! You will be able to work in a Hotel. You will get paid serving your friends meals when they go there.. How nice? Now, you go to hotel for meals and drinks, dad and myself are paying for it, next time you dont need to pay to drink in that hotel. You get paid by them for serving customers." .. How about it? Why not apply for it and give it a try? Her son went very quiet. No comments. However, that afternoon was the last time she reminded her son of the importance of studies. He woke up from his fantasy life and was a changed man after that.

I guess the thoughts serving his own friends meals and drinks is not his cup of tea after all...........

For all those who over work !!! Please read.........

Story Behind Your Birth Date

I received this email from a friend and find its very interesting ... for your reading pleasure

STORY BEHIND YOUR DATE OF BIRTH

If U were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month U r number 1....

If U were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then U r number 2...

If U were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then U r number 3...

If U were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then U r number 4...

If U were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then U r number 5...

If U were born on the 6th,15th,24th of any month then U r number 6...

If U were born on the 7th,16th,25th of any month then U r number 7...

If U were born on the 8th,17th,26th of any month then U r number 8...

If U were born on the 9th,18th,27th of any month then U r number 9...

Number 1
You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest, Jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, Famous person...always want to be and regarded as first on people Position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under Others, self confident people!
You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get Marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views And you are most likely to take revenge over your Enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future. If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and Well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard To bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some People too...
Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner & Wonderful children... You are pioneer, independent & original...
Your best match is 4,6,8 good match is 3,5,7 !!!

Number 2
No matter what, you will be loved by every one coz your ruler is the Moon and every one loves the Moon. Well.. You are a person who day dream a lot, You have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life, you Are very much unpredictable. Means you do change according to time and circumstances, Kind a selfish, have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, verbal communication. Your attitudes are like the Moon, comes to gloom and fade away so everybody can expect Changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who does peace love or you can be a Hitler who wants to destroy the man kind and peace (I mean in the community and your own home).
If you really have a deep thought about your own believe in God you can Feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your Words are a kind of would be happening true! So without any knowledge You can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, any Artistic business people!
You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get Marry.. If U r a girl you will be a responsible woman in the whole Family. If U r a man you will involve in fights & arguments in the family or Vice-versa. Means you will sacrifice your life for the goodness sake of Your family...You are gentle , intuitive with a broad vision, a power Behind the scenes, well balanced People!!!
Your best match is 2 ,5 ,9 no other people can put up with you !!!

Number 3
You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious, Loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have lots of problems Within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything.. You have the strong word power, pretty happy face.. So wherever you go always You have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth always wanted to work hard in order To achieve something.. You will not get Anything without hard work! When you reach a man/ woman age you want other younger Once to listen to you because you want younger people to respect people older than them. You do set so many examples to others. Generally you are not a cool person. It's not easy thing dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you like someone's attitud! e then here you go, what can I say? It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others. Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but sure they won't be long.. You will always have brilliant kids!!! You love the money a bit too much so temptation will push you to endless trying and trying.. If you are a guy then it's over. Looking after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except 21st born men). And number 3s you will be such an example of how to be in the culture & life!!! If you are girl then you have good character and culture & hardworking attitude. You always follow.. You are a freedom lover, creative, ambition focused, a person who brings beauty , hope & joy to this world!!!
Your best match 6 ,9. Good match 1 ,3 ,5 !!!

Number 4
You are very stubborn too, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool, helpful, you have rough word power.. Might put lots of people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, and you often understands others and their problems well. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of the time after girl friends (almost) at times, you will have sort of too much fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don't know what to do... So be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!! Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. Tell you what you people are little gem! s, specially the girls.. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You often live with disappointments, for an exampleyou have got a degree in some thing... but you will be unemployed.. or will do very ordinary jobs.But you will take care of your family very well...All you need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relations too.. You are radical, patient, persistent, a bit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order...
Your best Match 1, 8. Good match 5 ,6 , 7 !!!

Number 5
You are very popular within the community, you can get things done by just chatting..to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind, you are often have no-idea what is today is like, or tomorrow is like, you are a person who does anything when your head thinks "lets do this". You will be famous if you open up a business, get involve in share dealings, music etc.. Very popular with sense of humor ,you are the one your friends and families will always ask for help, and you are the one actually get money on credit and help your friends. You will have more than 1 relationship, but when u get settle down you will be a bit selfish anyway. Coz your other half will have a pretty good amount of control in you, be careful! You tend to go for other relationships! Contacts even you are married at times 'coz your popularity.. You are someone who get along with anyone coz the number 5 is the middle number.. Changes & freedom lovers you are! You are an explorer with magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it's your best teacher!!!
Your best match 1 ,2 ,9. Good match 6 ,8 !!!

Number 6
Ooopppss..you are born to enjoy.. You don't care about others. I mean you are always want to enjoy your life time, you are a person.. You will be very good in either education or work wise or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), very beautiful girls and guys, popular and more than lucky with anything in your lives. All the goodness does come with you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love. You are lovable by any other numbers. But if you are a number 6 man, you will experience kind of looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get married. If you are girl, most of you will get marry/engaged early. You are ! a caring person towards your family & friends . If you miss the half-way mark then you are about to suffer physically and mentally. Generally you will lead a very good inner-home happiness with nothing short of. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and after all you can heal this world wounds to make peace for every life coz you have the great power of caring talent to make this world of love one step further...
Your best match 1, 6, 9. Good match 4, 5!!!

Number 7
You have got the attraction to anyone out there, you are realistic, very confident, happy, such a talented individual with your education, music, arts, singing, and most importantly acting too. You have real problems with bad temper! If you are a girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above. You give up things for your parents. I mean you value your family status a lot, you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls, you are a very talented too. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their marriage life.Only a very few are happy. You have everything in your life, but still always number 7s have some sort of unfullfilness, such worries all their lifetime. It's probably the Lord given you al! l sort of over the standard humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life. So you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don't, then you might end-up single. So take care with this issue, ok? You are wonderful, friendly, artistic, happy person.. You are born to contribute lots to this world!!!
Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4 !!!

Number 8
You are a very strong personality, there's no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing and say "this is what". You are more likely to suffer from the early ages. I mean poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your parent and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life. The problems will not allow you to study further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time live life lonely and always prepared to help others. Well. once you get married (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit and you! u become safe. You will face un-expected problems such as : the error, government, poisonous animals, accidents. You are some one with great discipline, persistence, courage, strength which will take you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter!
Your Best match 1 ,4, 8. Good match 5 !!!

Number 9
Hey....you guys are the incompatibles people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally... You are often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there. Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have fighting life.. But when you achieve what you have done, it's always a big task you have done! You are so much respected in the community, you are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off. You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time. But when u grow you become calm and macho type. Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs coz people always trust you. Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children. Your such qualities are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate. You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice. You are totally a role model to anybody in the world for a great inspiration.
Your Best match 3, 5, 6, 9. Good match 2

I AM BACK!!!!

Hi Everybody..

I am back... because a message woke me up ..

The message reads "Every problem is a small problem" & "In the end we only live to be happy".. I am very grateful to receive this message from a dear friend of mine. Thank you..(i am sure you know who you are huh)

These two messages are short but the meanings are deep.. straight to the point too. Yupe.. we only live once, we dont know how long we have to achieve our goals, we should always greet every obstacles, problems with an open mind, think before we leap, try and try till we cant try no more and most importantly give ourselves happiness.

My grandpa is 96 years old, quite healthy for his age, he seldom uses his wheelchair, he always enjoy family gatherings with all his kids , grandkids, grandkids' kids (what's the term for this) .. he has out lived all his brothers. He happened to be the only one migrated to Malaysia. They all stayed behind in China. He didnt get any education. Married young. Has many kids, which means i have many aunties, uncles, cousins, nephews, nieces...etc. (still i didnt collect much during chinese new year) Even though he didnt get much education, but he has a mind for business and to have his money work for him.

I have great respect for him (which i think i ought to tell him so). To me, he is the most intelligent, steady (our local term for responsible person), quiet man, monitored the share market like a hawk, firm and strict with his kids. During the last recession , the share market drops drastically (like never before). Everyone stopped investing. They were worried, their money stucked, wasted and they are losing bit by bit of it each day. My aunty was a remisier then. She told us, during those bad times, she had only one customer. That customer happened to be her father, my grandpa. He took the opportunity to invest more. He monitored his accounts everyday. Never sold a single share. I'll leave it to you gals and guys to guess how much he made when he finally sold his shares..........

Now, this is one man who is not afraid to take risks. None of his kids dare to advise him on ways or ideas to make money or manage their company. None of them dares to make any decision without his consent. He is after all still the King of the house.

I should go to him for some business advises but..... his hearing is terrible even when he had the hearing aid on!!! bad reception...

One issue I know for sure... his kids visits him very often so that he's not lonely. Chat with him, or chatting among themselves while he sits in his chair dozing off because he's still in control of his property and money. hmmm.... I know my statements here may sound abit cold, sarcastic maybe but it is a fact. Money talks. A wise man once told me that money looks down on people, money chooses who it wants to be with. I am very surprise none of his kids are as successful as him. They dont live in poverty but none of them inherited his intelligence or make time or opportunity to learn from him. Its sad. At his age, he's still supporting some of them, even supported some of his grandkids through university. They even asked him for a car when they came back from University. They need transport for work. He also contributed for their weddings. Can you believe that? At his age, ..its like his children never grew up

TAKING LEAVE

DEAR ALL

I SHALL BE GOING AWAY FOR AWHILE TO FIND MYSELF.. THEREFORE I WOULDNT BE BLOGGING FOR THE TIME BEING. HOPEFULLY , I'LL BE BACK SOON TO SHARE MORE WITH YOU

TQ

Plans & Strategies

I believed in every move we make , it would be wise to plan ahead and strategize. There must always be a Plan B, Plan C, Plan D and if possible another Plan E.. Another extra 4 plans to counter any unforseen circumstances should be "safe", right gals and guys?

Anyway, what happen was I ran out of plans because I only had 2 or 3 extra plans but seems that I had more hurdles in my life than I hope for. I have to KaoTao (bow) to my destiny. I am not born with a silver spoon. More like work, and work your butt off. Back to my story, I used up all my marketing skills, not accounting skills because I suck at that category. Big time. A guy I met once told me he failed in his business because he hates maths, hates all the small prined figures in one sheet of paper.. I must admit he is one marketing master. He has the right product the right location for business the right crowd... everything from surface looks perfect. Till one day, his shop remained closed for days and later we found he and his whole family has moved away in the mddle of night!! It was very sad for all of us.. we all missed the food he served

So, in order for me to avoid all the ugly scenes, I have a few mentors and his story as a lesson I must keep in mind. Arming with these "shields", I am ready for my on going never ending of battle in my business , that is if I am not distracted by the unnecessaries. You see, I happen to be an emotional person. It sucks!! I can handle any problems except the ones link to emotional. It really sucks!! I tried to meditate but I cant concentrate. Everything is crowded in my mind. Gosh..... Worst of all, I regard betrayal from the person I placed my trust with, as a sin that's not worth forgiving. I know this is my weakness. I know if i learn to forgive I wouldnt suffer so much. But I also have this fear, if I forgive, then I forget, leads to me being absent minded and negligent, leads to me being betrayed again - worst if by the same person.. Any idea how i can improve so that I am bullet proof from this sort of unneccessary pain in my heart??

SUNBLIND FOR ADVERTISEMENT

Initial Setup of Sunblind

Ever since the construction for a Hotel started, our dobi business has dropped. After enquiring from customers and friends, we were informed our original signage is not clear. Some people dont even know we are a laundry shop!! Not only have the construction affected our business, it seems the whole stretch of shophouses are suffering because of it. They have even close up the road for their constructions convenience. We doubt they even apply for it. This is a public road, how can anyone just close it up??? Well, that's Malaysia for you.

Well, we decided to put up a sunblind for advertisement. Here its stated a Laundry Shop only, not even the shop's name; Daily Laundry, both in english and chinese, telephone contact and our website address. We hope to have good respond from this setup.

Our Sunblind fully setup ..... NICE???? BEAUTIFUL??

LOSE WEIGHT THE HEALTHY WAY

LADY SECRET KEY (LSK)

COFFEE & CLEANSE

Let me share with all my readers how I lose 9kg in 3 months . That was about two and a half years ago.. I didnt fast and I am not a exercise fan.. Exercise is hard work for me. Even though , I do know, understand and want to do it because age is catching up...

I was taking health supplements from GCLife Sdn Bhd.. Check out the pics.

Lady Secret Key (LSK) is only for the ladies.. This product

help to enhance the body , internally & externally, great for complexion . Helps to reduce pigmentation or age spot.

Coffee & Cleanse is good for losing weight!! It comes with

a 14 days money back guarantee too.. Isnt it great??

Natto is good for health. You can check out the Natto

from the Search Engine (preferably from my blog's search

engine)

Anyone interested , please email to me direct.. Fyi, I also represent GCLife Sdn Bhd as their Service Centre in Kuching, Sarawak, Malaysia

HEALTH SCREEN

Do you know anyone who has never done a full body medical check up?

Do you know anyone who is not afraid of terminal illnesses?

Do you know anyone who does not bother to take medication for his/her newly diagnosed illness?

Do you know anyone who couldnt be bothered about their health?

Well, let me tell you what i know and understand so far....

On an average scale :-

those in their late teens to 20s feel they are at the peak of their life, nothing would ever happen , they will not end up in a hospital seeking treatments, surgery is out of the question too because they are too young. They often see and hear about older people landing up in hospital. But NO,... definitely, NOT them.. yes?

One true story.. a girl age 25 was admitted to a specialist hospital after complaining of acute stomach/abdominal pain. Her family and herself of course, never thought she would end up in the surgery room on emergency basis. Initially, they thought she was suffering from food poisoning... Hey!, NO!! After enduring the pain.... Really pain pain, ok?.. for 2 - 3 days, and after being poke with needles for blood tests and etc... and after being checked by few different doctors,.. they finally know whats her problem. She had a cyst in her ovary. Now, you tell me.. A girl in her 20s , has anyone in her family ever suspected a cyst in her ovary or even her.... Does it ever occur to her? She didnt cry much,.. she is a very independent and strong will person , because she did not want to scare her mom, who is by the way, has been crying her eyes out.. She is scared , she is lost , she dont know whats happening, what went wrong.. her 25 year old girl is having this problem at this young age...

Now, come the 30s.... sure, they are aware of illnesses around.. sure they care of their health, sure they would go for treatments, sure they are not naive to think nothings ever going to happen,.... but they are to busy or lazy to take action.. its always in their minds to go for check up but they just couldnt find the time and are too stingy to spent for such check up.. They always tell themselves they should go, but they also tell themselves to wait another day another day another day........... some are too scared to know the results..

40s,.. they can feel age is catching up . Their staminas are down , they easily feels tired , joint pains , migranes, backache... etc.. This are the group who would go for medical, be it mild pain or acute pain...

50s and above ....... What's there to explain?? Of course, they are at the age of taking good care of their health..

Everyone should take the opportunity and make time to go (this goes to myself as well).. There are many health screen companies nowadays but before you decide on which company, you should try to do a market research on company background, the actual tests to be conducted, and please check out your agents too.. Some are so into sales, they tend to keep some facts from their customers. The pricing for this companies can range from RM1,000++ to RM10,000++ . You'll be surprise to know some companies offering a cheaper membership scheme actually conduct more tests. Also, these machines are like computers.. they are often upgrade, always a better version every now and then. We must check when was the last time the pioneers upgrade their machines or bought a new model. Most of the pioneers charged more than RM10,000++ for memberships..'

HAPPY HUNTING....

MEN!!!

She was feeling depressed and moody of recent. It seems age is catching up to her. Being in her early 40s, she has tried to think positively, she knows she still look OK compared to some of her friends. To start an exercise or even turn exercise into a hobby has been in her mind for years now but she is just too lazy. Excuses such as "oh, just had my hair wash, tomorrow i'll start", "i am so tired, i need a nap, i'll do it when i wake up later", "the weather... its going to rain anytime now (even though she had bought a treadmill can is inside the house)... etc.

Oh well, ... that day for exercise will come..

She's having lunch with her husband at one of their favourite spot. There they always saw that lady there too. Why is it they only notice her and not others you ask yourself? She's chinese ,fair complexion, hair dyed blond in colour, in her early 50s. Her spouse is a indian malay, well to-do but not the good looking type. She caught her husband staring at her as she was walking out of the shop. She felt he was drooling, since they did smiled to each other and he stared at her back from top to heel as she left.

She couldnt get those image out of her mind but she knows well enough to seek clarifications from him now. She wasnt sure how he would respond. Would he be defensive and offensive, would he take it as a joke, or would he just brush the topic aside???.... She knows she has lost the kind of "bond" between both of them of late... maybe they both have changed..

On their way back home, she decide to ask him as tactfully as she knows how.. Well, she wouldnt know his respond till she try, right? she thinks to herself. She chose to ask in a joking manner, teasing him of the way he looks at older women.. Gosh, but that woman has got Style!! .. She may not be a beauty, but she's an eye catcher.. for her Style.

He of course defended and argued gently over it. Saying "nonsense, you're being over sensitive, you're framing me, how could you be so unsure of yourself when you are many times more beautiful than her, younger too ..."

By the end of the conversation, he demaded an apology from her !!! He said she's making him sounds like a dirty old man, accusing him of things he didnt do,... therefore, an apology is essential...

She couldnt believed what she heard!!!!! Of the nerves!!!