China Dolls

I was informed one of my friend, working in the sales line, is having a mid life crisis now.

I think I should start from the begining of his story. At least the begining that I am aware of at that time. I was introduce to him by an aquaintance of ours. He was very young then, only early 30s. He's still considered young now. That time, his sales was booming. And I say really "BOOMING". He was earning at least a minimum of RM20K monthly. He did not come from a wealthy family background and he did not had any higher education, only the basics and minimum.

Can you imagine a guy who had never enjoy trips to overseas, properties to own, jewelleries to give............ no money to spend, suddenly is earning an income he never imagine able to before? What would happen to him? Would you like to guess?

There he was, at his prime time, considered as the high and mighty by his sales colleague. He was always the NO. 1 salesman in the company. If he ranks no. 2 one week before the month ends, he will strived for sales. He would make calls, he would visits his prospects for follow ups, he would work those extra hours.. because he knows he will only reach No. 1 through hard work. Then his friends invited him out for clubbing. Well, why not? he thought. After all, he can afford to treat his friends now.

His friends not only want to be treated for drinks. They wanted companions too. They brought him to one night club famous for Chinese Girls (China Dolls)from China. He spent money like a king that night. Even though he has the money , lots of it, to spend but he doesnt know the Rules of the Game when it comes to China Dolls .. Do you? ? NEVER GIVE OUT YOUR CONTACT NO TO THEM..DONT STICK TO ONE CHINA DOLL , THERE'S PLENTY AROUND TO CHOOSE FROM..

Wow, finally a girl , fair and pretty, is interested in him. She'll call him , talk to him in her sweetest voice, a good listener, a girl who understand him at last. When we knew he had a "china doll girlfriend", we smile but deep down we feel for him . We fear the worst for him. He got hooked. His china doll cant stop asking for gifts, he cant stop giving. She goes " Lau Kung, (Husband)" He goes "soft and melt"

Finally, he is now in trouble because he couldnt concentrate on his work ever since he met his china doll. Worst of all, his China Doll wants to leave him because he cant afford to keep her any longer. It all voice down to MONEY. NO MONEY NO TALK. She left for China, he is in pain waiting for her return.

Those who knows of his situation couldnt comment or talk to him. He should know. He is not in a state to accept the truth yet. His love has left. His love was there for him , for his money only. He is devastated now.

A man i know who has worked in China for 7 years told me that china girls cannot be trusted. They dont know the meaning of love and they are not capable to love. They love you when you have a well of wealth. You will go back to an empty home once they know your well has dried up. Thats Love, my friends.

Another told me, those who wants to keep a China Doll for 3 months has to pay 10K. This amount is for her to send back to China. This does not include paying for a house to keep her in, shopping , food... Is it worth the spending? With RM10K, you could get at least 50 china dolls for 1 hour each. Rich businessman can afford this but not salesman. Can this type of businessman accept the fact that one day his son brings home a china doll or even a local prostitute and tell him he's in love and wants to marry this girl? A girl that many men has used. A girl who has been violated in ways you could only imagine. A girl he will never know if she practises safe sex with all sorts of different men. A girl who might be a carrier for STD . Will she be a threat to his son's health? A girl who has professed love to many many men. A girl , that if she is back in China, would be paying or giving money to her man and not take money from man.

I can guarantee that Daddy will forbid his son to marry this girl. Because daddy is also paying for their services. It may not be the same girl.

In the older days, Men used to find it interesting to fight for a woman's affection. The harder to get, the more exciting. The concept has changed. It is now the more experienced and used by lots of men the girl is, the more exciting. Some men buys their story that they didnt know they were sent here to be a whore. This shows these girls have higher IQ than the rich businessman who are supposed to be wise.