Thursday, July 31, 2008

MY SHOES - DROOL ON !!



THIS RED SHOE IS VERY SEXY...

I HAVE A HIGHER VERSION OF THIS DESIGN IN GLOSSY PURPLE.... OOOHHH.....



This wedge shoe is very comfy.. black straps with small diamonate.. on the side of wedge, there are beads of different sizes and kinds

WIGS FOR ALL

I was informed by my hair stylist of the many different types wigs recently.

I was at one of my friend's boutique and saw that her hair looks different , kind of well styled. She told me she has a wig on once she saw me staring at her. I always wanted to grow my hair long, but for years, i never succeeded in doing so. One obvious reason is my hair never had the chance to relax from chemicals. I would perm my hair once in every two months, coloured it every month, highlight ( i love to do striking red highlight, preferably red from Joico), and recently i straightened my hair!!! A first in many years. Those who had known me for years just couldnt believe what I have done.. However, I am pleased to received positive comments.

I wanted to get a wig for a different look. I especially envied those gals with soft natural straight and thick hair. I wante a bob style look. Thinking of getting a bob style look but my hair stylist advised me to try a different type of wig.. It comes in 9 batches in one set.. you can clip on batch by batch on your head, its every long... so , i had it dyed to match my hair.. its made in china, 100% human hair, very soft too...

I look great!! I can even curlingtong it!! TADA!! Another different look.........

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Change of Look

Let's view my blog in a new theme. New Look so its not boring for those who frequent my blog.

Thank you

China Dolls

I was informed one of my friend, working in the sales line, is having a mid life crisis now.

I think I should start from the begining of his story. At least the begining that I am aware of at that time. I was introduce to him by an aquaintance of ours. He was very young then, only early 30s. He's still considered young now. That time, his sales was booming. And I say really "BOOMING". He was earning at least a minimum of RM20K monthly. He did not come from a wealthy family background and he did not had any higher education, only the basics and minimum.

Can you imagine a guy who had never enjoy trips to overseas, properties to own, jewelleries to give............ no money to spend, suddenly is earning an income he never imagine able to before? What would happen to him? Would you like to guess?

There he was, at his prime time, considered as the high and mighty by his sales colleague. He was always the NO. 1 salesman in the company. If he ranks no. 2 one week before the month ends, he will strived for sales. He would make calls, he would visits his prospects for follow ups, he would work those extra hours.. because he knows he will only reach No. 1 through hard work. Then his friends invited him out for clubbing. Well, why not? he thought. After all, he can afford to treat his friends now.

His friends not only want to be treated for drinks. They wanted companions too. They brought him to one night club famous for Chinese Girls (China Dolls)from China. He spent money like a king that night. Even though he has the money , lots of it, to spend but he doesnt know the Rules of the Game when it comes to China Dolls .. Do you? ? NEVER GIVE OUT YOUR CONTACT NO TO THEM..DONT STICK TO ONE CHINA DOLL , THERE'S PLENTY AROUND TO CHOOSE FROM..

Wow, finally a girl , fair and pretty, is interested in him. She'll call him , talk to him in her sweetest voice, a good listener, a girl who understand him at last. When we knew he had a "china doll girlfriend", we smile but deep down we feel for him . We fear the worst for him. He got hooked. His china doll cant stop asking for gifts, he cant stop giving. She goes " Lau Kung, (Husband)" He goes "soft and melt"

Finally, he is now in trouble because he couldnt concentrate on his work ever since he met his china doll. Worst of all, his China Doll wants to leave him because he cant afford to keep her any longer. It all voice down to MONEY. NO MONEY NO TALK. She left for China, he is in pain waiting for her return.

Those who knows of his situation couldnt comment or talk to him. He should know. He is not in a state to accept the truth yet. His love has left. His love was there for him , for his money only. He is devastated now.

A man i know who has worked in China for 7 years told me that china girls cannot be trusted. They dont know the meaning of love and they are not capable to love. They love you when you have a well of wealth. You will go back to an empty home once they know your well has dried up. Thats Love, my friends.

Another told me, those who wants to keep a China Doll for 3 months has to pay 10K. This amount is for her to send back to China. This does not include paying for a house to keep her in, shopping , food... Is it worth the spending? With RM10K, you could get at least 50 china dolls for 1 hour each. Rich businessman can afford this but not salesman. Can this type of businessman accept the fact that one day his son brings home a china doll or even a local prostitute and tell him he's in love and wants to marry this girl? A girl that many men has used. A girl who has been violated in ways you could only imagine. A girl he will never know if she practises safe sex with all sorts of different men. A girl who might be a carrier for STD . Will she be a threat to his son's health? A girl who has professed love to many many men. A girl , that if she is back in China, would be paying or giving money to her man and not take money from man.

I can guarantee that Daddy will forbid his son to marry this girl. Because daddy is also paying for their services. It may not be the same girl.

In the older days, Men used to find it interesting to fight for a woman's affection. The harder to get, the more exciting. The concept has changed. It is now the more experienced and used by lots of men the girl is, the more exciting. Some men buys their story that they didnt know they were sent here to be a whore. This shows these girls have higher IQ than the rich businessman who are supposed to be wise.

IS IT LOVE?

Love.. A four letter word ., a short word yet it has huge meaning to it. It can mean parental love, love between lovers, family love, love for a friend, love between spouses, love for pets..

Some people may mistook the meaning of love. Some interpret obsessions for another as being in love for him/her. When such occur, the other party might feel being forced into the relationship which do not allowed him/her some space or time to do what they like. Everyone loves spending time chatting up with friends, making new friends, gossiping, hanging out with friends they have known half of their lives. As such, sadness are buried deep inside for his/her loss of freedom. He/she lives in a lonely world with only the existence of the other party. Is it love? Being in love is a beautiful moment, a never-ending moment full of brightness in your life, understanding of each other's needs and wants, being your own self... Some fear of losing the person dearest to them so they become over possessive without realising they have already lost their love.

Sometimes love is interpreted in poems or in stories. One I heard of many years ago goes like this :-

Both boy and girl was sitting on the swings. Not a word was said through out their time spent together. When it was time to leave , they both felt they have said so much and left with a sense of fulfillment and happiness.

Sometimes " Silence is Golden ". Not many have the same chance as the boy and girl above. When it does happen, you will treasure that memories you both shared.

My uncle told me his secret for a successful marriage is " to be deaf and mute whenever your auntie speaks ". I laughed at his advise but I know there is no better way to handle a woman than being deaf and mute.

I heard my friend advising another to keep track of her spouse's movement, to be with him as much as possible,... "Always be seen with him" she said. This is to prevent any extra activities that might happen between the husband and " a woman who has not existed yet". Everyone will know who his wife is. They believed if their husband falls head over heels with another, they will lost his love . Children is their only excuses for doing so. However, men will always consider their family as their one and only treasure that cannot be "Bought". His children will bear his surname. He must protect and care for them. Women must try to be tackful when handling situation like this, try to be more understaning towards your spouse, give him space for breathing, to be around his friends. Alot of women are giving excuses such as above for their doings. They know they should not be doing such things to stress her husband but children is always the ' reason '. I find this is only an excuse. In actual fact, they are afraid of being embarrassed or ridicule by their friends. They are afraid that they will have shortage of money once their husband love another. Deep down they do know their husbands will always care for the children first. It is themselves that they are most worried of. Would they still have the "power to negotiate". Women as such lacks of self esteem, do not like to mix with friends, but they are good at saving money for rainy days.

Is this Love? Would you like to be in the husband's shoes? Being judge and punish before a crime happen.

Monday, July 28, 2008

FLUFFY



My Silky Terrier

Dont judge her by her small size.. she is very fierce and aggressive

OUR GOAL IN LIFE

He is now the founder of a big company , business in food industry. It wasnt easy to start it off initially. He didnt come from a well off family. He didnt had the chance to further his studies like his friends. He wasnt born with a silver spoon.

He sat in his office recalling the earlier days of his career. Those late nights , planning his strategies , managing with the little funds he had saved up through the years of working double shifts, those nights entertaining customers & potential suppliers or those whoever are influential enough to get him link with big shots. He even took up Japanese language classes at nights. He has made many sacrifices , especially his time to himself, money he must save , for he had a dream. In order to achieve his dream, he understands that his sacrifices are necessary and will be worth. He didnt have time for a partner or a pet. His focus is clear. Only one dream only one chance.

He chosed to work in companies relating to the food industry, learning and understanding their work flow. He knows it is utmost important to understand , he is not there to just work for wages only. He worked in different companies, 5 companies at least, in different departments, but all companies are in the food line of business. He saved up 70% of his wages, spending the balance only on his daily needs. He doesnt mind not having a girlfriend, he doesnt have the time for one and of course, how could he affords to have a girlfriend now?

The time has come. He is ready to start his business. He gathered some of his ex colleagues from his previous employment, inviting them to join him. Some of them were to scared to join, some adventurers type jump at the chance. So, he started his company, it was difficult initially. He had to get through this no matter how difficult it may seem because he was so sure this is his destiny. He wanted to turn his dream into a reality. He wanted it so badly. He did not want to fail but he made a promise to himself. He will not stop trying until he succeeds.

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All of us must have a dream. A dream you wanted to turn into reality very badly. Set a goal for yourself. It must be realistic. Focus and work towards your dream , your goal in life.

Dont just dream. You must want it badly enough to work towards it.

Friday, July 25, 2008

A Perfect Gift

AUCTION ITEM



Item : Pearl Necklace; one of its kind

Condition : New

Materials : Man made pearls , lace, beads,..

Auction Item from 26th July 2008 - 9th August 2008

Hey Guys !! The above is a perfect gift for your love

Thursday, July 24, 2008

ACCESSORIES CAN ENHANCE A DULL LOOKING DRESS























AUCTION ITEMS

Condition : New

Materials : beads, man made pearls, look alike antique coins

Note ::: Please email your auction price for the above. The above item will be open for auction with effect from 25th July 2008, closing date will be on 8th August 2008. The new owner will be notified via email.

Thank you

First Road Show

It was the company's first road show. We were promoting the RAKKU shoe wheel and GCLife products - Lose Weight The Healthy Way




Two days at one of the Shopping Mall, and we were quite surprised of the turnout and responds from passers-by and those working around the area. We met a few nice characters and of course a few chatty types..

Scenario 1
We were about to close our stall on our first day, when a man approached. I noticed one of our salesman was explaining to him ,... but not verbally.. They were both exchanging words by writing on a piece of paper. Actually, it was behind one of the flyers for the products. Out of curiosity, i approached both of them, and realise they were writing because the man was mute. He's experiencing constipation, indigestion problem. I introduced him our GCLife Cleanse Plus, which is fiber in powdered form, gave him instructions on taking the products. I am sure he will feel much much better in three days time, provided he drinks plenty of H20

Scenario 2
Another guy came up to us, enquired about the article printed on our flyers. It was about a man, aged 61 , suffering from diabetes condition. He under went leg amputations three times up to his knee because his wound would not heal. He needed the wheelchair, was depressed, worried and in pain. The man wanted to know if our products can guarantee to heal diabetic patients. How about that?? ... I read in a book before, some guy asked the author if his products can guarantee him more returns. The author's reply was "Can Havard University guarantee you a job when you graduate from there?" "Can a Harvard graduate earn more than a Monash University graduate? Are all these guaranteed?"

I agree with the author,.. its all within ourselves. If we are hard working, put alot of afforts in our work, not afraid to try and try again after each and every fall we experienced, then i say we will surely reached our desired goal. You must have the desire to succeed. Same goes to the man who asked to be guaranteed. A diabetic patient has to watch his or her diet, take medicines, do not snacks on crackers and sweet delicacies etc... Its not easy, but prevention is better than cure. This man was actually asking on behalf of his friend whose nerves has 'died' from too much insulin injections. He left after thinking he could not get alot of residue income from introducing the products to his friend. What a Friend!

I am very sad when he just turn and left., shaking his head.. I do hope my friends would rather see me get well fast (if i am sickly) then trying to make quick Bucks out of my conditions. True friends are hard to come by. Be true and sincere to those who befriended us for who we are. Not what they can get in return by being friendly with us. Do you have a True Friend? One who will always be there for you when you are in need, one who will not ask and never even cross his or her mind to receive any benefits out of helping you... Open your eyes open your ears open your heart.. who do you see?

We are hoping to hear from everyone we met during our road show very soon...............



Pictures taken upon setting up on our very first day on field work...

It was a COOL experience for all of us.. even though myself has participated in roadshows and exhibitions before, unlike the other two guys...

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Shoe Lovers



Come join me, all you shoes lovers .... "peek-a-boo" on my shoes collection


Best way to store is via Rakku Shoe Wheels. It will help to keep your shoes fresh, clean, longer life span.. If you need one, check out my archive of "sales sales sales sales"

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Photo taking



This picture was taken by a 6 year old girl. Its her favourite teddy bear. She loves the color pink too. She brings her camera everywhere she goes. She takes pictures from everything to any angle. A passion for photography is what she has.

Drawing By The Two Sisters

initial stage of the drawing
the completed piece of artwork by the two sis, aged 6 and 12....

Friday, July 18, 2008

Short Story

They started shouting out to her "Your dad's here! Quick! .. Hey! your dad's here! " .. She ran as quickly as she could from the back of the house to the gate. She was jumping with joy, she's going home. She's been there the whole day playing with her friends. But one whole day of playing for her is quite tiresome, she longed for her home.. she longed to lounge on her sofa back at home, be a couch potato, watching her cartoon shows, one at a time....

They had been playing at the back of the house, climbing trees, watching the fish swim in the very small pond... the grass was not cut. She was not used to this sort of environment. it's quite 'dirty' , she thought to herself.. she yearned to go home, to her cozy contented environment where she felt safe, nothing bad ever happen there,.... oh, how she thought she will be in her safe place in 15 minutes time.. she ran as fast as she could to the gate to greet her dad.

She was about to call out to her dad, she had to abrubtly stop at her tracks. The man standing in front of her was not her dad... what's happen? what's going on? .. she turn to the back, saw her friends running up to her. actually, they were laughing at her. one or two of them even call out to her.. "hey, go on... call him dad!.. that's your dad! ..." and they continue to laugh.. She couldnt understand why her friends had played such a cruel joke on her. She loves her dad. That's not her dad. But the way they joke made her look again at the man , he was smiling to her now. He had a warm smile. A familiar smile. Same smile a dad would give to a daughter or son... She was only 8 years old, how could she feels this? how can a 8 years old feel so confused? yet ................ what's happening inside her mind?

Kiddy Artwork



Kids at work.... one of those selected and pinned up

THE SCHOOL PLAY DAY

Enjoy the performance by the kindergarden kids..... just beautiful!!

Saturday, July 5, 2008

TOPS ON SALE









        • Item : Stretchable Black V - Neck T-Shirt (Free Size) 3/4 long sleeves, Good for a person with Size S or M body


        • Condition : Used , material still in good condition


        • Design on T-Shirt : Embossed printed on Flower design cum with stitch on beads


        • Price : USD 5




        Front Vew
        Side View Back View



        • Items : Purple Pink Knit Wear, Long Sleeves


        • Condition : Used, in good condition


        • Size : Free


        • Design : Long Sleeves, stitch on beads at one side of top


        • Price : USD8

        Front View
        SOLD



        Back View

        SOLD


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        • Item : Orange T - Shirt , Cap Sleeves with slit


        • Size : Free, good for a Size S / M


        • Condition : Used , good condition


        • Design : Design printed on , suitable for the chic gal, cums with iron on small diamonate on the sleeves and V- Neck. . Iron on beads missing one on the neck and one on one of the sleeves


        • Price : USD 5






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        Back View


        Side View









        Friday, July 4, 2008

        What I Learnt Recently

        Hei u gals & guys... u know what? One insurance lady met up with me after losing contact for like .. 10 years.. anyway, she mentioned a seminar she attended recently co-joined between Prudential and Amanah Raya and she told me she gathered alot of info on the Malaysian distributor act.. All this while, i heard of "Will" , even believed that everyone should at least prepared one - its for the family when they are no longer around to provide for..



        But do we actually understand "Will" .. How does it help us when we are no longer around?.. How about , how sure are we that our property is properly distributed as per our wishes..?.. i checked around few companies' websites on any info i can gather and gosh! boy, am i still blur...!!

        Do those who has made "Will" ever make time to update it?? How many of us ever come across to doing it??



        Will comment more when i have more info and appreciate any info anyone can share..

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        Thursday, July 3, 2008

        Books For Sale




        Condition : Used (Read through once)

        Price : USD8.00 each . Please quote title of book when placing orders.

        Shipping : Excluded. Will seek for shipping quotation before confirmation of order

        Country of origin : Malaysia



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