JEALOUSY

Is Jealousy acceptable? Is it human nature? Personally I feel Jealousy is an emotion that everyone has. If there is one person you feel has no jealousy feeling at all, then you are Wrong. He / She never shows any jealousy emotions because He / She is good at controlling their emotions. Some may regard this as having very good EQ. Female genders are more out spoken when it comes to emotional issues whereby male genders tend to keep their feelings to themselves. (I am not from the male gender. But my guess is maybe they feel it would be safer to pretend nothing happen. Best to keep quiet. Or else the night would never end. hahaha)

So, back to my question. Is it acceptable? ............. Yes?...........No?.............Don't know?..............

Some women complaint their partners do not care for them. Why? because they said their partners are not the jealous type. .. One girl said she will feel so high and in love all over again if her boyfriend can just show some jealousy emotions for Once. One Time. Just One Time. (maybe she should be careful what she wished for. One time can lead to Two times and Three times and on and on. Then its break off time or stuck for life )

One guy said how he wished his new bride is still the same woman before exchanging their vows. Before becoming MR. & MRS. , he has the freedom to hang out with his friends and his MS. has never complaint or control him. Now, his MRS. told him "You are now a married man. Why are you still hanging out with your friends every night? Don't go out. " Is this a case of jealousy? or Is this a case of Queen Control? Let's face it Ladies, Girls, Aunties, Women of all walks of life. We tend to be more protective after exchanging vows. Why? Is it Love? Are we insecure? Is it because we don't trust the other half to make the right decision when meeting opposite sex? ... Nah! We are just being loving , right Girls?

MEN. Give us women a break. Try to be more considerate. We are after all the Sensitive types. We are such good listeners that we listen to each and every word you say. Word by word. We then opt to read between the lines. Of course we also try to be a facial fortune teller by reading the signs from your expressions. (Scary huh?.. i hope i did not scare off all the single guys out there). But we, women, will always be there by your side, when you are sick, when you are sad, when you are happy and of course when you are rich.. Its not that we are after your money, we just want to teach you the skill of saving money for rainy days (if possible, in women's bank account) :)

Question of the day : Is Jealousy Acceptable? Or Is it Jealousy? Maybe Love? Tell me or us, readers, your side of the story..

MY EXPERIENCE WITH AN UNIDENTIFIED POLICEMAN

Set my alarm to ring at 7.00am last night. Had a feeling I will be late if I do not set my alarm. Why? Because I have been crazy "planting crops" in my FaceBook... hahaha...  I must not be late as I have to send a guest off to airport by 10am.

Upon reaching the Kuching International Airport, an unidentified 'policeman' came up to my car at the driver's side. Without saying anything He knocked real hard on my car's window. I got the shock of my life! As if that's not enough to shock me, He cant stop yelling in his mother tongue language 'Bahasa Malaysia'. I winded down my window, asked him politely what happen. He was still yelling 'DEPAN! PANDU DEPAN'. (it means DRIVE. DRIVE FORWARD) .. Oh, my car is not park straight.. I see. Then I look at this 'policeman' and turn to look to the front. Shucks! now how am I to move my car forward if there's a car in front of mine, and another nuisance guy yelling and hands moving up and down, pointing here and there ?? Geezzz..... now I am upset!

The car in front finally move a bit and I can move too.. Still, this man cant shut up. His gaze shows as if he is so in power. Chinese verbs : SIAU KAU PUI! (Meaning a crazy dog barking) Talking to us like trainers training their dogs. Window still down, I asked for his Identification card. I have to know who the heck is this Guy? Is he the Head of Police Unit? How could a policeman wearing the usual blue uniform has no police logo on it? Instead a YELLOW huge logo on the sleeve that cant be read. I got another shocked when he yell at me talking again in Bahasa Malaysia "TIDAK PERLU TENGOK! PANDU SAJA! TIDAK PERLU TAHU". Translate to English : "DONT NEED TO SEE! DRIVE! NO NEED TO KNOW"

With so much adrenaline building up inside me, I came out from my car . I look around for his face. Finally saw him standing some few feets away, chatting with his fellow colleagues and again full of ego. I waived him to come. He came. I said very loudly I am sorry if I wrongly parked. Offered my hand for a hand shake. He refused and feel very proud. But that idiot didnt even know I said it loudly in case he is partially deaf, just for the benefit of doubts. Who knows he yells so loud because he has hearing problem?

Then I spoke to him in the language that I am sure he understand. Bahasa Malaysia. Try talking to him in English, I think he'll get migraine . I told him to show some manners when talking to vehicle owners and do not ever knocked on windows so hard. It is rude and uncall for. While I was trying to get my message across to his head, he cant stop talking and complaining. Gosh! This is the kind of standard officers we can get here in Malaysia Boleh Land. They are not well versed in English language (they expect tourists who come to Kuching, Sarawak, Malaysia to be able to converse in Bahasa Malaysia) , they are also obviously not well mannered.

I finally was able to shut him and his colleague (with a gun) up. I told them I PAY MY TAX. I WANT YOU TO STOP TALKING. I WANT TO TALK AND I WANT YOU TO LISTEN GOOD. With that they both shut up.

I am contemplating to file an official complaint at the Kuching International Airport because this is not the first time this has happen to me. Many of my friends complaint of this sort of treatment from Kuching International Airport too. But Hey, guess what?  There is no place to file a complaint. There is no website to do it either.

Again, they got away with harassment!

1st Wife Club

Women are born to be protective of their children and husband. If they could put a sign on their husband's forehead "DO NOT COME NEAR" , they would. Since not able to tattoo it there, wife normally would stand near and watch like a hawk. They look for hints. They are good at reading facial expressions .. So Beware!

Not all women are over protective. There are many types. We have the ;

i) mature, plain looking, insecure, home-maker, few children, thrifty

ii) mature, working, financial independent, smartly dress, high education, confident, high position in the company, children (more than 1), travels a lot

iii) middle age, high education, beauty conscious, children, working, shops too much, travels frequently, emotionally and financially dependent on spouse

iv) young, late 20s / early 30s, married young, children, no chance of traveling, more window shopping than buying, fashion freak, insecure

v) young, single, well taken care of by partner, colorful lifestyle, travels to overseas often, out of job, lives luxuriously, visit beauty salons more than 3 times a month, financially

dependent on the partner, no sense of belonging

These are only few types among the many................ Do you think they all react the same way towards their spouses/partners??

I read one short animated story by Ronald Chu (Translated by Alan Chong) titled The Sour Pack. I find this book very amusing but so true... Ronald Chu can literally read a woman by 'the book'.. hehehehe

Let me quote you from one of the page;

MEN TO PRETTY GIRL : I OWN MANY BUSINESSES AND NUMEROUS

PROPERTIES. WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND?

THE WIFE SUDDENLY APPEARED : YOU RASCAL! UP TO YOUR HANKY-PANKY AGAIN!

(SHE GAVE HIM A GOOD BEATING)

PRETTY GIRL : (IN HER THOUGHTS) WELL, THE WOMAN BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN WILL NEVER GIVE A CHANCE TO THE WOMAN IN FRONT OF HIM

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GIRL : MEN ARE SELF-CONTRADICTORY AND STRANGE ANIMALS

THEY SEEK EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN AS LOVERS BUT ONLY ORDINARY

WOMEN AS WIVES

BOY : HMM..... THAT SOUND LOGICAL.... WILL YOU MARRY ME?

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