Have you read the book titled "Women Are from Venus Men Are from Mars"??... for those of you who have not read this book, it may help to check it out. It tells of how women phrase their words when speaking to the male gender, the message read by them... Wow! you will be surprise by how often these are happening in our daily lives.. Anyway, i read the book few years back, i found it to be amusing in a way, because I never thought men to behave or think in such manner. BUT unless you put it into practise and work your way towards improving the relationship and unless both parties (girl and boy / hub & wife / lovers) read it together , it would not have much impact in your lives..
Girls grow up wanting to be beautiful . They loves whatever that is beautiful. Be it a mountain, a fish pond, puppies. As they are in their teens, they loves to be dress up , be popular, have many many friends around, envious of others.... and then they think they know what's love. That's when they start to have 'guy' friends... secrets among friends, giggling all the way to and fro school... soon they learn what's heartbreak all about. The feelings of loneliness, hopeless, mood swing, .. crying themselves to sleep, counting sheeps when they cant sleep... some even count the petals of roses "he loves me , he loves me not"...
Come time for earning an income , they realise parents will always be there in terms of money.. they spent all they want, they have not been taught the importance of savings, they become more and more materialistic, they start to have occasional drinking sessions, drunk driving, smoking etc... living each day to the fullest. Shortage of money never come across their mind. It never cross their minds if both parents just perished!!
